for Accomplished Women OVER 50 Who Feel Like Strangers in Their Own Lives

The Identity Key
masterclass

Learn how to finally live like the woman you were meant to be before the world taught you to disappear.

You’ve built a successful life, but lost yourself along the way

You’ve got the success.
The family.
The reputation everyone admires.

But your soul?
Still starving for more.
And your joy?
Still buried under everyone else’s needs.

You’re not broken.
You’re just one bold decision away from reclaiming the woman you were meant to be.

Whether you’re lying awake at 3 AM whispering, “Is this really it?” or secretly fearing you’ll disappear before you’ve truly lived. This is your sign.

It’s time to stop living as a ghost in your own life and start becoming unapologetically, vibrantly YOU.

This free masterclass will show you how to reclaim your identity and uncover the woman you burried under 30 years of other people's needs in just 8 weeks

even if you don't know who YOU are right now.

Inside this free Identity Key training, you'll learn...

+ The Sacred Selfishness breakthrough that's working in 2025 to transform resentful martyrs into powerful, joyful women

+ Who The Real You Is. Not someone else's version of you

+ The #1 reason why you feel like you're dying inside your successful life

+ Why this Identity Excavation System is the secret to authentic living

+ A simple way to make your husband respect your voice

+ Why therapy, self-help books, and spiritual retreats are the WORST way to reclaim your identity

+ AND how to do ALL OF THIS without guilt, fear or judgement!

A note from your host

Melissa Lanz

Your...

Coach

Permission Granter

Boss Lady

World Traveler

3am Friend

I want to help you...

reclaim your identity and finally live as the woman you were meant to be before the world taught you to disappear.

“But what if I’ve forgotten how to be anything but who they need me to be?”

You're in the perfect Place

I’ll walk you step by step through how to uncover the woman you buried under years of roles, responsibilities, and other people’s needs, so you can finally remember who YOU are and what lights you up inside.

Life After Reclaiming Your Identity? Let’s Paint That Picture.

You wake up without the 3 AM ache of “Is this it?”


You feel energy you haven’t felt in decades, not from obligation, but from desire.


You look in the mirror and recognize the woman staring back at you, vibrant and unapologetic.

You sit at the dinner table and your voice carries weight, not through ultimatums, but through confidence.


Your family notices the shift. The way you smile, the way you move, the way you come alive again.

You’re no longer living as a ghost in your own story.


You’re awake. Present. Excited.


And for the first time in years, your life feels like
yours.

That’s the power of reclaiming your identity.

Perfect for you if...

+ You’re successful by every outside measure, but inside you feel empty.

+ You’ve spent decades living for everyone else and can’t remember what YOU want anymore.

+ You lie awake at night with the quiet fear: “What if I disappear without ever really living?”

+ You’re tired of guilt, fear, and judgment every time you try to put yourself first.

+ You want to be seen, heard, and respected without having to fight for it.

+ You’re ready for a clear, doable path to uncover who you really are and live unapologetically.

Are you still worried it’s too late for you?

Let's Try This:

Imagine walking into a garden.

You see flowers in full bloom. Roses, tulips, sunflowers.
Each one radiant, alive, unapologetic in its own timing.

And then… you notice a bud just starting to open.


Soft. New. Unfolding right on time.

why?

No one looks at that flower and says, “She’s late.”


They just marvel at the beauty of her finally blooming.

Your identity? It’s that flower.

Yes, you’ve spent decades in roles that asked you to hide parts of yourself.


But no one else has
your story, your voice, your soul.


And it’s not too late. It’s right on time.

Women don’t come alive based on age.


They rise when it feels safe… when it feels possible… when it feels
right.

So no, you haven’t missed your chance.


The world isn’t tired of you.


Your life isn’t “over.”

It’s just waiting for the version of YOU that only now is ready to bloom.

And once you learn how to honor the woman you’ve buried, in a way that feels true, guilt-free, and powerful? You don’t have to fight for space or prove your worth. You shine naturally.

See you inside, okay?

There is an 'Identity Emergency' happening to millions of accomplished women right now.

Here's the "3 AM Truth" that haunts every successful woman…

"I FEEL EMPTY"

and why ignoring this whisper is slowly killing your soul (plus how to finally listen without losing everything)

How to Go From Feeling Like a Ghost in Your Own Life, Resentful of Everyone You Serve, and Terrified You'll Die Without Ever Knowing Who You Really Are to Living as Your Authentic Self and Waking Up Excited About Your Own Existence

The Simplest and Fastest Way to Stop Living for Everyone Else and Start Living for Yourself in Your Spare Time, Right Now in 2025…(using a simple "Identity Excavation System" that takes just 5 shifts to implement!)

You Shouldn't feel like THE question Mark in your next chapter.

Melissa Lanz

Melissa Lanz is a coach, author, and permission-granter, whose work blends soulful strategy, identity reclamation, and story-driven transformation. She guides accomplished women over 50 to uncover who they truly are, reclaim their voices, and step boldly into lives that feel unapologetically their own.

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