A 2-hour live workshop to help you rebuild your confidence, rediscover your identity, and start living like you again. Guilt-free, fear-free, and unapologetically alive.
Seats are limited for this live event


Join Melissa Lanz live for this transformational workshop that helps divorced women finally stop disappearing and start becoming themselves again.
Seats are limited for this live event.







Discover how
The Identity Key Workshop is the missing piece in your transformation to turn confusion into clarity, doubt into self trust, & fear into unstoppable confidence.
Even when you feel like you've waited too long!
You're successful. Accomplished.
You did everything "right."
But your marriage ended and your kids left.
And now you're standing in the silence asking:
"Who am I? What now?"
Everyone tells you to "give it time" or "focus on self-care."
But time isn't healing anything. And bubble baths aren't excavating 30 years of losing yourself.
Meanwhile...
You're successful. Accomplished. You did everything "right."
But your marriage ended, or your kids left, or your carreer no longer fits.
And now you're standing in the rubble asking:
Everyone tells you to "give it time" or "focus on self-care."
You're convinced you've wasted your best years
You're building a "new normal" based on the OLD you
You wake up at 3 AM with the same crushing question "What now?"
You look in the mirror and don't recognize the woman staring back

Every day you wait is another day living as a ghost in your own life.
But what if there was a better way?
What if you could go from "I don't know who I am anymore" to "I know exactly who I am and I'm becoming her" in just 90 days?
What if one 2-hour workshop could give you the complete roadmap to reclaim your identity, reconnect with your intuition, and finally feel at home in your own skin?
What if you could move through your days without guilt, fear or judgement?
That's exactly what The Identity Key Workshop does.

This isn't another self-help seminar.
This isn't therapy in disguise.
This isn't "positive thinking" or vision boards.
+ This isn't another self-help seminar.
+ This isn't therapy in disguise.
+ This isn't "positive thinking" or vision boards.
The exact internal shifts that separate women who transform from women who stay stuck for another decade.
These aren't "tips." These are non-negotiable reorientations of how you see yourself, navigate complexity, and claim your power.
Miss even one, you'll drift back to the old patterns.
Master all five, you'll be unrecognizable in 90 days.
THE GRIEF CEREMONY :
For releasing who you were and what you lost without needing to "get over it"
Includes grief naming, permission to grieve, and a sacred goodbye ritual
A comprehensive diagnostic tool that:
Identifies which of the 5 Sacred Shifts you need MOST
Reveals your unique identity blocks
Pinpoints your exact reclamation pathway
Creates your personalized 90-day roadmap
A complimentary 45-minute private call with meLISSA
where we:
Identifiy which of the 5 Sacred Shifts you need MOST
Deep-dive into your assessment results
Identify your #1 block to reclamation
Create your personalized transformation plan

No one looks at that flower and says, “She’s late.”
They just marvel at the beauty of her finally blooming.
Your identity? It’s that flower.
Yes, you’ve spent decades in roles that asked you to hide parts of yourself.
But no one else has your story, your voice, your soul.
And it’s not too late. It’s right on time.
Women don’t come alive based on age.
They rise when it feels safe… when it feels possible… when it feels right.
So no, you haven’t missed your chance.
The world isn’t tired of you.
Your life isn’t “over.”

And once you learn how to honor the woman you’ve buried, in a way that feels true, guilt-free, and powerful? You don’t have to fight for space or prove your worth. You shine naturally.
See you inside, okay?